Hi! I’m Shira,

Being in shidduchim can be really challenging, with all its emotional ups and downs.

For quite some time, I felt like I could really benefit from some support in this area. While my family and friends had been (and continue to be) there for me, what I truly sought was a sense of connection and validation. I wanted to feel understood by individuals who were experiencing the same stage as me and who could empathize with the unique challenges I was facing.      

After asking around, I came to the realization that no such support group existed. I was pretty shocked; there were support groups for so many different situations that people were going through, but none for something as basic as one for those in the parsha? It just didn’t make sense! “I can’t be the only one who feels like I can benefit from such a thing,” I thought. “Okay. Well then, if there is none, I’ll make one!”

And so after many months of back and forth filled with, “Should I do it? Is there a need for such a group? Will people like it…” Sparks of Light finally launched!

I pride myself on being extremely authentic, and so I try to present this challenge in the most real way possible (no sugar coating!) while at the same time staying upbeat and positive.

My goal in this group is to, firstly, give some chizzuk and validation to everyone going through this difficult challenge, and secondly, give some practical tools, & tips that will show you how you can actually thrive in this stage.

I hope you will enjoy coming along with me on this journey!

We’re all in this together!    - Shira